WHEN THE BODY HURTSTHE MIND FEELS IT TOO

There is a quiet emotional weight that can come with living in physical pain.

It is the kind of weight other people cannot always see.

It follows you into work.

It sits beside you in your relationships.

It changes the way you plan your life.

It is the fear of another flare.

The fear that pain will return on the day you need your body the most.

The frustration of missing plans.

The frustration of watching life continue while your body forces you to stop.

The guilt that comes with needing rest.

The guilt of feeling like you have disappointed people because your body needed care.

The loneliness of not feeling believed.

The loneliness of explaining your pain to someone who has already decided that you are exaggerating.

Physical pain does not stay in one part of the body.

It can interrupt your sleep.

It can affect your mood.

It can make work feel harder.

It can change how you show up in your relationships.

It can make you feel disconnected from the person you were before pain became part of your routine.

This can happen with painful periods.

It can happen with endometriosis.

It can happen with fibroids or another condition that causes ongoing pain.

Pain can become a monthly interruption.

It can become a daily reality.

Neither should be dismissed.

Women are often taught to keep moving.

We learn how to push through pain before we learn how to ask for help.

We learn how to hide our discomfort so other people do not feel uncomfortable.

Many Black women are also praised for being strong.

We are expected to carry pain without allowing anyone to see how heavy it has become.

But strength should never mean staying silent about pain.

It should never mean smiling through something that is affecting your life.

Being able to endure pain does not mean you should have to live with it.

Your emotional health and physical health are connected.

Your mind responds to what your body experiences.

Your body also responds to what your mind has been carrying.

Stress can affect how the nervous system processes pain.

Living with pain can also create more stress.

Both can be true.

Pain can have a physical cause and still affect your emotional health.

Emotional exhaustion does not cancel the physical reality of what you feel.

This does not make your pain imaginary.

Emotional care belongs in pain care.

Pain care should make room for fear.

It should make room for grief.

It should make room for the exhaustion that comes from fighting to be believed.

Track when the pain happens.

Do not only write down a number from one to ten.

Write down what the pain stopped you from doing.

Write down what you had to cancel.

Write down what you could not finish.

Tell your provider how the pain affects your sleep.

Saying that something hurts may not explain the full impact.

Explain what the pain is taking away from your life.

Ask questions when something does not feel right.

Get a second opinion if you feel dismissed.

Being dismissed once does not mean you have to stop searching for answers.

Consider emotional support if living with pain is becoming too heavy.

Therapy does not mean that your pain is only in your head.

It means you deserve support while living through something difficult.

You deserve care for the part of you that hurts.

You also deserve care for the part of you that is tired of hurting.

You deserve to be believed before the pain becomes unbearable.

Your body should not have to break down before someone pays attention.

If you need immediate emotional support then call or text 988.

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